If Candidate Mertua Can not Compact

If Candidate Mertua Can not Compact

If Candidate Mertua Can not Compact

If Candidate Mertua Can not Compact


Marriage is not just a union of
two persons, namely the bride
woman and her partner.
However, it is more meaningful to the unification
two large families that possibility
has customs and habits
different.


In addition, often the family
is derived from the tribe
different, so each
has custom wedding
differently.


As a sacred ceremony, wedding
must be planned
mature and far-away days. Ideally
the formation of the committee held
within three months prior to the day
wedding.


Next will be prepared anyway
determination invitation design, plan
theme and decorating wedding hall,
and the selection of wedding dress
and uniforms for families and
other close relatives. Use
uniform usually aims to
an event looks harmonious and
mismatched.


But it is not easy to determine
choice of uniforms or dress like
what is most fitting for all
parties involved. Moreover, if both
sides want to highlight the
'Regional' respectively. Do not
until the decision looks like a heavy
door and ignore one
one party.


Here are tips for those who
being confused, if the prospective in-laws
can not compact in determining
uniform selection at the event
wedding reception:

Both parties understand the desire of parents

In a marriage should
discuss in advance
how the desire of each
parties, party girl
as well as men. Each
parties should express their opinions
in a large meeting sebuha
the nature of the deliberations. From there
will be determined to be like
What a wedding reception
will be held later.

Each party should not be forced

Imposing the will of the one
one party would be bad
on the marriage itself. Good
the bride nor the parties
family, each will mutually
problematic. Therefore, try
not to take a decision


instantly and in a hurry.
In essence, a wedding
is wholly owned by
both the bride and groom. However, no
It is undeniable that the process
involving both sides
families who may have
cultural background of each.
Collaboration could be a solution
If after the meeting was not found
solution, and each one does not want to
relent in fighting
Indigenous culture in the wedding reception.
Then, try to propose
the theme of collaboration.
This can be done with a mix of
two cultures, both of
the women and men.
You can also hold
twice for the wedding reception
meet the demands of parents.
It should be noted, that twice
held a wedding reception of
would cost greater.
The level of inconvenience that must be faced
the bride and the family also
will increase.
In this case it is possible to
event organizers in order to assign it to services
the event went smoothly. Besides
do not bother, the bride
and families can make
event organizer as the mediator.
However, once again, the existence of
event organizers also need
Extra funds are certainly not least.

One budge

If the bride and family
feel they have sufficient funds
to hold two types of customs
wedding or pay for services
event organizer, it would be better if
No one party who succumb.
In general, the customary perempuanlah
which will be used in
a wedding procession. This matter
occurs in the majority of Indonesian people.
Wedding procession usually
also carried out at home the bride
female, so that it would be
good if the man relents
for the sake of the implementation of pickles reception
wedding smoothly.